In theory, parents are in control of their kids for 18 years. Then, the kids graduate high school and, supposedly, are "on their own."  But that's rarely the case, is it? Especially these days, with kids living with parents longer and parents contributing big money to college tuition, the bond between kid and parent extends well into adulthood.

Where should parents draw the line? When should they stop parenting? Do parents have the right -- or obligation -- to influence their kids' career plans?

• If a parent is paying for college tuition and living expenses, should they be able to demand a certain school? A certain area of study?

• Or ... Is it more appropriate for parents to be totally hands off, even if that means spending $150,000 on a kid's art history degree?

• How much pressure did your parents put on you? Did they really just want you to be a lawyer or a doctor? What did you end up becoming? Any regrets? Should you have listened -- or not listened -- to your parents' advice?

• If you have young kids, what do you hope for them? How will you deal with this hope or expectation? Will they know what you want for them? Or ... Do you think it's important for them to figure it out on their own?